Not actually a rant...

But I wanted to save this post somewhere. If the IVF doesn't work, our other options are TDI & adoption. So what dramalish posted about is definitely something I think about from time to time. It's also why I want to give the baby from my eggs + J's sperm a chance, and not just '...skip to TDI because it's cheaper (and partially covered by insurance)...' as a friend suggested shortly after we found out we'd have to do IVF (that's a vent for another time).